I took the bait and we went out last night. Again, saying he was sorry and he wanted to be with me. Then he contacted me this past Monday (not quite a week after I “ended” it). That was 2 weeks ago after we spent the weekend together. My guy friend says he did it because I did but I don’t know and I haven’t asked (I don’t want him to think I’m stalking him either…I’m not. I noticed his profile was no longer up, but a couple of days later it was. I then went back to the online dating site where we met. At that point I told him that wasn’t good enough for me and I told him basically “good luck with whatever you’re looking for”. Again, he gave me the “I don’t want to be with anyone else, but I can’t commit” speech. He also sensed something was up with me and kept asking me what was wrong and to please talk to him…so I just said I wanted to know where I stood with him and I wanted more. I just feel like he acts the opposite though.
I feel like he is committed in that he’s not seeing anyone else he acts like a boyfriend (for the most part) but he keeps saying he doesn’t know if he’s ready for that type of relationship. Lately I have been feeling like I want more. He said he had no intention of being with anyone else and only wanted to be with me. I told him I wasn’t expecting anything from him except that if we were sleeping together I would expect him to not sleep with anyone else. Within a week, maybe 10 days, he contacted me saying he was sorry for what happened and he really liked being with me, etc. I wasn’t going to beg him to stay and I acted like I didn’t care.
I just let him get out what he wanted to say and told him it was fine. I was a little upset, but I didn’t pry or throw any reasons why we should be together at him. About a week after that weekend together he got distant and told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship and he came up with a dozen excuses as to why. Every time I went out with another guy I just kept wishing I was with him. Prior to this I was dating others but no one I wanted to see twice honestly. That was when we first became sexually active with each other. A little background…our dating started like most…dinners, drinks, long talks…this went on for almost 2 months when he asked me to go away for a weekend with him.
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